tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21324447624004932662024-03-13T14:42:05.179-07:00Becoming the Bruce'sKatie Brucehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16191013745085412779noreply@blogger.comBlogger25125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2132444762400493266.post-62917866589300895572011-04-06T15:40:00.001-07:002011-11-22T00:59:06.699-08:00Cardigans<style>
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<div class="MsoNormal"> I once had a friend who told me that cardigans were my trademark. Not my strawberry-red hair, my very pale skin, the way I laugh, or a repeated phrase I use- but cardigans. Before I had time to question if he thought I dressed like an uptight librarian, I took it as a compliment. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">You see there is a man that I truly believe may be the greatest American hero. In fact, during my junior year of high school, for a history assignment, I called him just that. While students around me debated between Andrew Jackson and Abraham Lincoln, I closed my history book and delved a little deeper. In the background, silly girls debated if they could convince the class that a musician or actor could be crowned such a title. I had a hard time believing any celebrity could really be given such a valiant honor. And as I sat there a little longer, it came to me. Mr. Rogers, everyone’s friendly neighbor, was truly the greatest American Hero.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Now before you go thinking that I spent a little too much time in front of the television as a child or that Mr. Rogers doesn’t fit the quintessential mold of a hero, hear me out. I believe that he was more than a man that appeared on our screens every morning, meant to distract children and allow mothers to sneak away for a quiet cup of coffee. Here was a man, who dedicated his life to instilling love and worth in the lives of little children. His goal was to not only show us how to love one another, but most importantly how to love ourselves. If I could have known at the age of five, the battle I would face in loving myself, I would have been taking notes. He once stated that his entire goal in broadcasting was for the viewer to know that, “you are an important person just the way you are.” What a mantra for such a young target audience.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">I remember watching “Mister Roger’s Neighborhood” as a child and while it wasn’t my favorite, I know I enjoyed it. Something about it I found comforting, much like resting my head on a cool pillowcase before falling asleep. Here was a man, a very simple man, who had no interest in being flashy or famous. He wanted no business in bombarding his audience with typical media messages. Messages that at a very young age begin to tell us of what we are lacking or what we desperately need in order to be of value. Mr. Rogers’ messages were quite the contrary. He whispered through our television screens, and reminded us time and time again, that we are special just the way we are. He literally embodied the unconditional love of Christ in his mission to build healthy self-esteems in America’s youth.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Later on in life, after my high school report had been turned in and graded, my respect for Mr. Rogers crept on. I began to learn more about his life outside of television. I read books and interviews and discovered that who he was on camera was just a small glimpse of the greatness he was off camera. I learned of a man, who found value in every interaction he ever had. He did more than just exchange pleasantries to his fans and friends. He invested in the lives of others.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Mr. Rogers was best friends with a man named Henri Nouwen. He was a man who was an internationally renowned professor and beloved pastor, who wrote over 40 books on the spiritual life and dedicated his life to serving the social outcasts and underprivileged. Nouwen was a very great man, to say the least. But if you should know one thing about Henri Nouwen for the sake of his friendship with Mr. Rogers it is this: Nouwen was a man who felt very alone, who struggled with his identity, and often found that his greatest challenge was loving himself and believing that God loved him. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">I don’t find it ironic that God placed these two together as kindred spirits. Henri was a man who needed to know of his worth and Fred was the man, whom God knew would know just how to speak value into his heart. I imagine there times together, hunched over tables, holding napkins of spilled tears, praying together and reminding each other that in Christ they are so dearly and completely loved.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">The scriptures are filled with the promises that God loves us. And not only does He love us but He loves us without us having to do a single thing. We don’t have to tap dance our way into His heart or spill a cup of coffee to grab His attention. He simply loves us. In Psalm 117:2 it says, “For great is His love towards us, and the faithfulness of the Lord endures forever.” </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">There’s no catch. He just has love and when He looks at us, we are worthy of His love just as is. I don’t need a nose job, a Bentley, a well stocked fridge, or a clean bathroom sink. I can wake up, decide not to make the bed and great is His love towards me. Towards you.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">The hard part is that sometimes it is impossible to see. We look around us and in a life and in a world that demands more and more of us-we can’t possibly believe that His love for us endures forever. But I have to believe that our God cloaks us in cardigans. He shields our bare shoulders and with His hands, He fastens each button, speaking the truth of how vast and how high, how rich and how deep His love for us is.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">When I say that having a cardigan trademark is a compliment, I mean that I hope in some way I resemble Mr. Rogers, the way in which he resembles Christ. With each sleeve, he was a man who taught me more about grace. In looking at his life, I wonder if each day, while changing into his cardigan, he was preparing for battle. As he zipped into the knitted yarns of his sweater, he raised up the shield of Christ. Through every interaction, he fought against the devil’s schemes and abolished the lies we so often believe. The lies that tell us we aren’t lovable, desirable, or precious. And in the comfort of his cardigan, he extended to us the truth that we are special just the way we are.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">In looking at my closet I can see why that old friend believed it to be my trademark. It certainly is my wardrobe staple. But these days, it’s more than just a layer of clothing. I strap on a cardigan every day, much like a bulletproof vest, to defend myself from the mixed messages I receive about not being enough. I button it to remind myself that He loves me just the way I am, and I hope and pray that there are moments where God can use me to extend it around the shoulders of a stranger or a friend, who is hunched over a table, clenching a napkin filled with spilled tears- to whisper the truth of how greatly they are loved, just the way they are. </div>Katie Brucehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16191013745085412779noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2132444762400493266.post-51229700883174720972011-04-05T16:21:00.000-07:002011-04-05T16:21:35.428-07:00Keep Us<style>
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<div class="MsoNormal">If you’ve been a bride, a bridesmaid, known a bride, or simply don’t live under a rock you are aware that planning a wedding is difficult work.<span> </span>There are details after details to be attended to, decisions to be made about food and flowers, and the ultimate task of choosing what to wear, among many other things.<span> </span>Will we sip champagne, should we hire a band, will the reception be lively enough to keep the guests dancing all night long?<span> </span>Decisions, choices, and demanding details all run their course as plans for the big day unravel.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">When Nate and I began planning our wedding we knew we wanted to dance under the stars and for our closest friends and family to celebrate with us.<span> </span>We looked forward to a reception filled with sweet laughter and soft candlelight.<span> </span>But, our main concern was the words we spoke before the celebration.<span> </span>For us, our ceremony was what was most important.<span> </span>Of course we wanted a lively reception and a chance to share with our guests the moments of our day- but before the celebration we wanted our hearts to be heard in our ceremony.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">The ceremony was our chance to come together, as a couple, and not only commit our lives and love to each other, but devote our relationship and marriage to God.<span> </span>The vows we spoke softly to each other were also offered to Christ.<span> </span>As important as it was for each of us to become husband and wife, we had a greater desire to come together, as two instead of one, and offer our marriage to the Lord, in hopes that the sum of our parts would be greater than what either of us would ever have to offer on our own.<span> </span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">After exchanging rings and speaking words of promise to each other, we wanted our first few moments of married life to be spent in communion.<span> </span>As we broke bread and drank wine, as symbols of Christ dying on the cross for our sins, we had our dear friend, Alex, sing a beautiful song.<span> </span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">We chose a song with lyrics that are a prayer.<span> </span>Nate and I saw this song as a prayer we so desperately wanted the Lord to hear, from our hearts.<span> </span>The song is called, “Keep Us.”<span> </span>It is a prayer asking God to keep us from the storm.<span> </span>That when the rains set in, when the world turns upside down, when the ground shakes, and when we’ve had enough- keep us. It speaks of two lovers, lying hand in hand, as the world outside rages and they ask that in the safety of their home, that they are kept.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">To us, it wasn’t a prayer asking God to keep us from harm, but a prayer that pleaded that when the storms arise, as they certainly will, that in the midst of the struggle, that He would keep us.<span> </span>Keep us together, hand in hand, and keep us safe, in His arms.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">In the bible it says, “You have been a refuge for the poor, a refuge for the needy in his distress, a shelter from the storm and a shade from the heat…” Isaiah 25:4</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">The Lord is a refuge and a shelter.<span> </span>When we are poor, needy, broken down, and in severe need of shelter-He is there.<span> </span>When we feel beaten down and scorched by the sun, He is our shade.<span> </span>We can retreat to Him and He will “keep us” from being overtaken.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">When Nate and I got engaged, after only 6 months of dating, many people questioned us if it was too soon.<span> </span>But, the people who knew us and who had traveled our journey alongside of us, knew that we had already weathered all the seasons. <span> </span>We had already encountered storm after storm and surely did not have our head in the clouds about a “happily ever after.”<span> </span>We already knew of the wind and rain and had prematurely had the chance to stand together in the storms.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Our wedding was my most favorite day.<span> </span>I found the perfect dress, decided on simple music, fresh flowers, and to sip on sweet champagne. It was filled with love and hope.<span> </span>We celebrated being man and wife with all the ones we love most and most importantly committed that our lifetime of marriage would be spent serving God.<span> On that day, during the most precious moments of our ceremony </span> and for every day after, it has been our prayer that the Lord would keep us.<span> </span>No matter what waters rise and rivers overflow that He would hold us and keep us within His grip.<span> </span>We know that there will be times of pain and times where our own legs shake beneath us, but God is our shelter and our refuge, and He will grasp onto us in His love and hold us steady.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">My prayer for you is this:<span> </span>Wherever you are; if you hear the thunders roll or if you’re looking dead on into the eye of the storm, remember that He has promised to be your refuge and ever-present shelter.<span> </span>The world may turn wrong, but in the safety of your Home with Him, you will be kept.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">These days, while Nate and I lay in bed, the rain seems to be relentless right outside our windows.<span> </span>And often times we find ourselves thinking that perhaps we’ve had enough.<span> </span>But, as the waters rise, we lie hand in hand, and whisper a song that He would keep us.<span> </span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">To hear “Keep Us” click <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=udmoKfofTwE">here.</a></div>Katie Brucehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16191013745085412779noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2132444762400493266.post-59849669266370667062011-04-01T15:53:00.000-07:002011-04-01T15:53:53.711-07:00He Fights For Me<style>
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<div class="MsoNormal">When I was younger, the evidence needed to determine what kind of night’s sleep I had was in the sheets.<span> </span>If the sheets lay flat, it was probably an indication of a good night’s rest.<span> </span>Yet, if blankets had fallen to the floor and my sheets had come un-tucked, it was a good sign that my night was filled with nightmares or wild, crazy dreams.<span> </span>Making my bed was always more difficult if the sheets and blankets had been strewn around the room and as a little girl, after an eventful night’s sleep, I would often ask for my mom’s help in putting my bed back together.<span> </span>As we re-tucked, pulled, huffed, and puffed my mom would always ask me if my night had included wrestling a bear.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Some nights, when my dreams leave me twisted and tangled, I wake up feeling tired.<span> </span>My mind is racing and it seems as if my time to rest has been interrupted by a host of snarled dreams.<span> </span>Instead of feeling refreshed and ready to face a brand new day, I have prematurely face planted before even placing my feet on the ground. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">During some seasons in life, we feel the same way. Twisted, tired, and tangled among our circumstances. There are times where we feel conquered.<span> </span>We drag our bodies round and round, clench our jaws in frustration, and brace ourselves for impact around ever corner.<span> </span>With no warning at all, our covers are stripped from our bodies and we lay cold and exhausted.<span> </span>We try to run, to stand up and fight, but just like in our dreams, our movements are played out in dramatically slow motion.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Our natural instinct in times of distress is to rise up and fight.<span> </span>We keep pushing and straining ahead.<span> </span>If we can only just move forward- the key is to keep moving.<span> </span>In the madness of the world, in our disappointments, tragedies, and fears we crawl uphill.<span> </span>In the rain, we carry heavy wet blankets of our pain, sorrow, and strife.<span> </span>We tell ourselves that if only we can keep moving, then we will be okay.<span> </span>As long as we toss and turn in our sheets, the battle continues and we are not knocked down and destroyed.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">But, only for so long can we continue.<span> </span>Soon we are too tired from wrestling the the bears and utterly exhausted from the wet blankets on our backs.<span> </span>The last thing we think we can do is rest.<span> </span>Yet, this is just what He calls us to do.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">One of my favorite verses in the bible is a promise found in Exodus 14:14.<span> </span>It says, “The Lord will fight for you; you need only to be still.”</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Still.<span> </span>I only have to lay still.<span> </span>In this scripture we are promised that He will fight for us.<span> </span>His strength will save us.<span> </span>We can give him our heartaches, transfer our worries to him, and lay flat as He continues the fight.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">I find that to be such sweet relief.<span> </span>I can unravel the sheets from my ankles, drop the heavy, wet blankets from my back and I can rest.<span> </span>Not only do we not have to face the torments of life alone- but also He takes up our battle.<span> </span>It’s no longer a dreadful diagnosis of cancer that we must bare or the untimely death of a loved one that we must survive.<span> </span>Instead, we can be still and He will surround us in His love, compassion, peace, and comfort and He will fight for us because He knows it is too much for us to handle.<span> </span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">In being still, there is no more waking up in cold sweats from nightmares.<span> </span>Wrestling bears is a thing of our past.<span> </span>Our beds have been re-made with fresh sheets and properly placed comforters.<span> </span>We lay still as the Lord tucks us in and takes on our battles.<span> </span>And while I rest, close my eyes, and crawl underneath my cool covers- He fights for me.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div>Katie Brucehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16191013745085412779noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2132444762400493266.post-21807342024140497502011-03-31T20:00:00.001-07:002011-03-31T20:00:21.490-07:00Opening Day<style>
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<div class="MsoNormal">In my family, today’s a holiday.<span> </span>It’s Opening Day!<span> </span>Spring training has come to a close and baseball season is officially underway.<span> </span>With it, we welcome long, sunny nine inning days, home run screams, and seventh inning stretches.<span> </span>Opening Day’s rainbow is a promise that summer is quickly approaching and the long dark days of winter are almost just a memory.<span> </span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">For your team, it’s a new beginning, a chance to start fresh and charge the field with fervor.<span> </span>Players approach the game with their bats held high and the missed opportunities of last year’s season behind them.<span> </span>Before the first ball is pitched, each athlete is filled with a confidence of big dreams.<span> </span>Mistakes have yet to be made.<span> </span>The diamond sparkles and for a moment failed seasons of the past are obsolete.<span> </span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">However, after the first pitch is underway it’s only a matter of time before failed at bats, wild pitches, and fielding errors.<span> </span>An imperfect season is inevitable and at times agonizing for a team and its fans.<span> </span>For me, it feels a lot like life.<span> </span>We arrive with the best of intentions and championship dreams and simultaneously begin dodging the curveballs life throws in our path.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Last night I felt like I was standing in the middle of a losing season.<span> </span>I lay on the couch and desperately tried to wish it all away.<span> </span>I felt covered in grass stains.<span> </span>It’s been strikeout after strikeout of health grievances and financial overloads.<span> </span>We feel like we’re on the road, far from a home game, and each loss tears at our spirits.<span> </span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Flat on our backs we called to God.<span> </span>“Hello?<span> </span>We know you’re there- but look at us, Lord.<span> </span>We’re barely hanging on.”<span> </span>And in the dark hours of the night, we lay exhausted from a day that resembled being hit by pitch after pitch.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Today, when I opened my heavy eyes, I was reminded of His promise.<span> </span>“Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness.”<br />
Lamentations 3:22-23</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">We are not consumed, in His love and compassion we will not fail.<span> </span>Each morning, God’s mercies are new.<span> </span>No matter how dark the night can be, His light comes in the morning.<span> </span>I don’t have to wait through a long season to bounce into life again.<span> </span>With Him, each time I awake it is an Opening Day.<span> </span>He is faithful and by His love I am restored every morning.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">I need to be reminded that each day, He is there.<span> </span>My pain and my financial worries do not consume me.<span> </span>Every day, He opens my eyes with His love and fills my mind with His mercies so I can begin again.<span> </span>His great faithfulness helps me back to my feet so that I can approach the day with confidence.<span> </span>I can hold my bat high and hold onto a hope of homerun dreams.<span> </span>I am not withheld from His love.<span> </span>By His compassion, when I awake, it is always Opening Day.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Play Ball!</div>Katie Brucehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16191013745085412779noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2132444762400493266.post-2699422254522314822011-03-30T17:34:00.000-07:002011-03-30T17:49:19.722-07:00Back Up Plans and Perfect Provisions <style>
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<div class="MsoNormal">Tomorrow morning I planned to pick up one of my dearest friends from the airport. Her name is Dena and she’s a lovely soul. In fact, she’s more two parts sister and one part friend. You know the kind of person I’m talking about. Someone you can say anything to and do absolutely nothing with; a person who has seen you at your lows and toasted with you at the highs. In short, she just gets me and as an added bonus likes me still.</div><div class="MsoNormal"> </div><div class="MsoNormal">Her visit was supposed to last 6 days. It planned to be her first visit up north to see us as well as her maiden voyage to Seattle. I saw us dancing in rain boots, drinking large doses of hot chocolate, and gallivanting on adventures to discover hidden treasures by the fist full. We both have had our calendars marked for months and tomorrow we planned to temporarily cure the long distance of our relations.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">As the days have drawn closer to our impending time and the countdown dipped into the low single digits, I began to feel anxious over our visit. Not in a single way did I not want to spend time with my soul sister, I just grew frustrated that our visit might become less than intended. You see, by now you know I prefer things to be perfect. Anything less leads me to believe that I have failed someone, which coincides with my biggest fear of letting people down. And as I began to imagine Dena’s trip to the Pacific Northwest, I knew it would heavily contrast perfection. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">I haven’t been feeling well for quite sometime. I’ve been dog-paddling in pain, suffering from little sleep, and racked with unending nausea. It’s become a chore to get out of the apartment, much less my bed. I have been on the hunt for suitable doctors in our new town and finally, just recently I think we stumbled upon someone we can trust. Long story short, I am prepping for another surgery. Yet another incision, which will lead to another scar, all to clear my body of the disease that ails it. Of course it leaves my spirits weak as reality sets in, over again, reminding me of my fragile frame. Everything is harder when you don’t feel well. Smiles are harder to come by and patience is scarce. And in a city of almost perpetual rain, it’s harder to pull yourself up by the boot straps and venture off into an unforgiving world.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">All I could think to do was pray. I asked Nate to pray and dialed my mom to assuage my concerns. And so I prayed. I prayed that God would provide me with strength and smiles. I asked for the ability to enjoy my days with my dearest of friends and for anything else I believed could muster me through. I knew that it would literally take Him to accomplish anything at all. So I bowed my head, and I prayed.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">I’m embarrassed to say that when He answered, I was surprised. Maybe even shocked. I figured He’d answer my prayers through the course of our six day visit and I’d find myself on the other side, smiling and spent. But, I was wrong. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Last night, I received a text from Dena. She was asking for prayer. She informed me she was feeling quite ill herself and if she didn’t feel better soon she was afraid she’d have to cancel. I responded saying that I was feeling less than myself as well and that I would pray. And then it hit me…was this His answer? So I offered my thoughts to her. “Do you think this is God’s way of telling us we had better postpone?” And her response, “I’ve had this feeling, all day, that you were in this same place and I actually think that is what we should do.” We both wanted this visit to be wonderful and well consumed because on our budgets they seem to be so futile and far between. But, unsuspected circumstances inevitably would prevent that from happening so we postponed and God answered.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">In the bible it says, “The Lord has heard my cry for mercy; the Lord accepts my prayer.” Psalm 6:9</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">And yet when He accepted my plea and answered in such a tangible way, I was shocked. It seemed unexpected. He heard me? God has provided a way? He is bestowing mercy and grace? No way! </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">But, of course He listened to my plea. He promises to hear our cries and while I thought He’d provide in a different way, His way was better. Instead, this answer fills Dena and I with ease. It’s not one friend bailing on another. Now it’s two friends going with our Plan B and His apparent Plan A.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">I know sometimes His answers are not so cut and dry. Often they’re blurry and keep us second-guessing ourselves. Other times the answers themselves seem like simply no response at all. But that’s just the thing, what seems to us as unanswering is actually just what we need. As my Dad has told me time and time again, we must expect the unexpected when it comes to our God. He frequently provides in what appear to be round about ways and while His answers may not be our first choice, they are exquisitely beautiful because they remind us of His promise to hear our prayers and accept them.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Dena, you know I’d sit on a couch with you- anywhere, any day. But, God’s Plan A is for us to meet together another time and perhaps another place. I’m hoping it also includes healing for both of us in ways of physicality and emotional grace. I love you, my sister, so far away- but know that He has heard our prayers and has bestowed us with peace amidst our failed perfect plans.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">And God? Dear God… Help me to, among my prayers, have confidence that when I call, you will answer. Open my eyes to see your answers in canceled plans, unsuspected pains, and promises revealed in time. Thank you for your patience when it takes me more than a second to see it’s not my backup plans but your perfect provisions.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Amen </div>Katie Brucehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16191013745085412779noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2132444762400493266.post-33299770743788795812011-03-29T15:37:00.000-07:002011-03-29T15:37:21.073-07:00Needy Thanks <style>
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</style>On Sunday afternoon I received a text from a family friend requesting a need.<span> </span>Her youngest daughter was on a trip in Washington and her perfectly mapped out itinerary had taken a detour, leaving her without a place to stay the following night.<span> </span>Thankfully, Nate and I were able to rise to the occasion and welcome her daughter, whom I once used to baby-sit, into our home.<span> </span>I could tell, as any other appropriate parent would be, that the mother was worried about her daughter being stranded in a city not her own.<span> </span>And she spoke tears of relief when we were able to meet her needs. <br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal">So Monday morning, I opened our doors and welcomed in a friend in need.<span> </span>We watched movies and talked of her academic dreams.<span> </span>Later that afternoon, after Nate was home from work, we took her to dinner and then made milkshakes back at home, mid way through another movie.<span> </span>When it came time for bed, we covered the couch in blankets and sheets, found a nightlight, and gave her a choice of two pillows.<span> </span>Come morning we chatted over toasted bagels and juice and listened to music.<span> </span>Later today, we will drive her to the airport, where she will board a plane headed home, safe and sound.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Last night, as Nate and I lay in bed, wishing ourselves into a deep sleep, Nate whispered how happy he was to have had the chance to supply her needs.<span> </span>He recognized how many times others have opened their doors to us as a couple and an even greater amount of times that others have helped us out individually, before our love story began.<span> </span>People have lent their ears, have cooked meals, and shelled out bits of advice.<span> </span>Others have offered their homes, provided transportation, and slipped us checks to pay medical bills.<span> </span>While what we had the opportunity to do last night was just a small taste of what others have done for us, we were grateful to be used in such a way.<span> </span>A menial meal and some covers on the couch was all it took to supply a need.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">A need is defined, as something required because it is essential or very important.<span> </span>It expresses a necessity.<span> </span>We need water.<span> </span>We require food.<span> </span>Shelter is a necessity.<span> </span>And then we have or “wants.”<span> </span>The things we desire to possess or do.<span> </span>I want a new camera.<span> </span>I desire to travel more.<span> </span>“Wants” aren’t needed, they are extra. For Nate and I, these days it is about our needs.<span> </span>Of course, there is so much more that we want but the basics are all that we need.<span> </span>And by His provisions we have everything essential.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">In Phillipians 4:19 it says, “And my God will meet all your needs according to His glorious riches in Christ Jesus.”</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Without a doubt I know that this is true.<span> </span>He supplies our needs.<span> </span>My God meets all my necessities.<span> </span>I will be the first to admit that sometimes I doubt He will provide.<span> </span>I wonder if He sees my needs or is aware of the minimal requirements.<span> </span>But, there has yet to come a time where He hasn’t shown up or where I have failed to be blessed in His glorious riches.<span> </span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">You see, like our recent houseguest, we can set out on our perfectly mapped out itinerary.<span> </span>But as sure as you think those plans are or that your bank account is set, you can be equally asssured that the course you are on will involve some detours.<span> </span>Many of which you will not be able to provide for on your own because sometimes it isn’t about just food and drink.<span> </span>There will be times when you need strength and moments that will require a tremendous heap of hope.<span> </span>In times of fear, you will need to be brave and when you feel consumed you will need comfort.<span> </span>It is He that can provide that to you, to me, and to all His children in far off lands.<span> </span>Our God will meet all of our needs.<span> </span>And often times, even greater than that is that He will choose to use us to meet the needs of people in our lives and of perfect strangers.<span> </span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Rest assured that you cannot do it on your own; no matter how hard you try.<span> </span>And wake up to the reality that there will be times when He chooses to use you as a vessel in His providential care.<span> </span>My God has met all my needs and I am beyond humbled when the blessings He has given me allow for me to be a blessing.<span> </span>He is supplying our needs and choosing to use us to meet the ones of those around us.<span> </span>It’s an amazing double blessing as we are provided for and also given the gift of being used in other people’s detours.<span> </span>His plan includes meeting all of our needs. When I find myself back at the point of thinking I have it all figured out on my own, I will remember these days where our story included both needs and being needed and I will remind myself of His never ending capacity to supply our needs, even in the detours we thought we’d never see. I am thankful to be needy when I realize He is all I need.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div>Katie Brucehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16191013745085412779noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2132444762400493266.post-91277404459955696932011-03-28T15:23:00.000-07:002011-03-28T15:23:28.170-07:00Perfection Reflection<style>
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<div class="MsoNormal">I spent much of this past weekend trying to figure out what I needed.<span> </span>I wasn’t standing in front of an open fridge surveying what I needed from the market to complete dinner’s recipe.<span> </span>No, I was standing in front of the mirror, inflicted by my own reflection.<span> </span>With my own eyes staring back at me, I searched for what I lacked.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">I’ve been my own worst enemy for as long as I can recall.<span> </span>I have cast disapproving glares in my own direction.<span> </span>I’d even go as far as to say that I’m among professional ranks when it comes to introspective fault finding.<span> </span>I am constantly concerned with not being enough and often question what it is that I am lacking.<span> </span>This weekend in particular I found that not only was I lacking long hair, but with that discovery I only opened up a host of many more apparent absences in other areas of my life.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Let me rewind.<span> </span>This Saturday morning I had an appointment to cut my hair.<span> </span>I wavered back and forth and side to side whether to leave it long and go with a trim or chop it off and cut it short.<span> </span>Either decision should have suited me just fine.<span> </span>I mean we all know that cutting our hair is not life changing in the least.<span> </span>On the drive to my appointment, I thought I had concluded that I would opt for a healthy trim and leave it long, however at the last minute, while sitting in the stylist’s chair, I gave her permission to cut it short.<span> </span>Almost as soon as she started the cutting I was filled with ten million ounces of regret.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Regret? Over a haircut?<span> </span>How silly can I sound?<span> </span>But, soon after the damage was done, it was the mirror and I, hurling insults back and forth.<span> </span>The discussion about the hair lasted no longer than 2.5 seconds and then we got down to business.<span> </span>With the shorter cut and concern for how it looked, came bigger questions.<span> </span>Could I not pull off my new ‘do because I lacked poise?<span> </span>Or perhaps I lacked beauty?<span> </span>Was it my face, my bone structure, or did I need longer eyelashes?<span> </span>It must have been my body.<span> </span>Too round, too soft?<span> </span>And then it was about my brains.<span> </span>For what I lacked in length could I make up for in wit?<span> </span>In intelligence?<span> </span>Maybe my skin?<span> </span>Too fair, too impaired by blemishes?<span> </span>Then the digs dug deeper.<span> </span>Who could love me with this hair?<span> </span>I began to believe that I wasn’t good enough.<span> </span>Not good enough to be liked and certainly not loved.<span> </span>My heart not sweet enough and my mind not great enough.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">And as I stood in front of the magnifying mirror, I realized it wasn’t about the hair.<span> </span>Not even about the eyelashes or wit.<span> </span>It had nothing to do with being round or soft but everything to do with falling drastically short of perfection.<span> </span>It’s been about that for quite some time.<span> </span>I’ve stood in front of my personal pantry for hours on end, searching for all that I lack.<span> </span>What is it that I need or what can I add that can make me the best version of me?</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">And you know what I’ve found? <span> </span>I have found that I am asking the wrong question.<span> </span>It isn’t about what I can add or what better ingredients I need.<span> </span>The truth is that it is about what can be taken away.<span> </span>And not even what I can take away but what He can.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">In Psalm 18:32 it says, “It is God who arms me with strength and makes my way perfect.”</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">He makes me perfect and not in terms of beauty or brains.<span> </span>He makes me perfect by stripping me of the lies in which I have been deceived.<span> </span>The world all around us tells us of what we apparently lack or goals that we have failed to reach.<span> </span>We are inundated with pressures of perfectionism and they scream of what we supposedly need.<span> </span>But the truth?<span> </span>The truth is that He makes our ways perfect and He arms us with strength to stay the course.<span> </span>Because with Him, perfection isn’t attained when there is nothing left to add, but rather when there is nothing left to take away.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">So, He takes from our shoulders our false preconceived notions of what we lack in order to be loved.<span> </span>With our God’s hands, the fog of lies that scream we are unworthy are wiped away.<span> </span>He removes from us the burdens of pretended perfection and lifts the veils<span> </span>we have hid under in shame.<span> </span>And in place of all that has been washed away, He covers us in Truth and Strength.<span> </span>We are filled with His love and find identity in His ways.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">The world tells us of our need for perfection.<span> </span>Its voice can be so loud, to the point it had me debating of whether to scrounge around my apartment for spares of my once long hair to scotch tape back to my head. <span> </span>But God’s definition of perfection is nothing like the worlds.<span> </span>He is perfect and He calls us to strive towards His perfection.<span> </span>Meaning we grow more grace, cloak ourselves in compassion, and shed ourselves of the lies.<span> </span>It does not matter, my reflection in the mirror.<span> </span>What matters is that He offers me strength as he guides me in His perfect way. Through His mercy He takes away all I have added in my false attempts of perfection and as I abide in Him He blesses me as I strive to see glimpses of Him in my reflection.<span> </span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div>Katie Brucehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16191013745085412779noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2132444762400493266.post-36897805800945599842011-03-25T16:28:00.001-07:002011-03-25T17:46:01.016-07:00A Good Year <style>
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<div class="MsoNormal">I’ve found that in talks with businessmen, when you ask how things are going, they often respond in terms of years. “Well, it’s been a hard year…” or “This year has been great for business…” and they measure their company and its value in years. If the economy is failing, like most recently, years are rough. And if their industry is expanding years are great. Each year tells a different story, sets a different tone. Some tales are tragic and some years are marked with prosperity. And while I don’t own a traditional business, I am part of a family. And in the business of my family? Well, let’s just say 2010 was a good year.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">My family has probably been under harsh, relentless attack since 1997. This isn’t to say that there were never blessings in our midst, but overall things were very heavy. In fact, amongst one of my brother’s circle of friends we were known to have the “Scudder Curse.” If something wrong could happen, we found ourselves in the very middle of that rubble. We faced illness, the darkest throws of depression, a drug addiction, and you name it, it happened. In some ways it became tragically comical. There we were, holding on for dear life, and taking breaks to laugh in the absurdity of it all. The pain grew us stronger as a family. We found comfort in each other’s arms and solace in our prayers. Our faith was tested and tortured but we managed to keep our grips. Many times it was all we had. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Each of us was exhausted. Overwhelmed in our defeats and crushed down by the weight of each other’s pain. Yet, somehow we still believed. We believed God’s love and His presence in spite of our circumstances. In the middle of the troubles against us, we were given eyes to see His blessings and in 2010 they came in full force.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">In the spring, we all felt the joy of planning a family wedding. It was a do-it-yourself endeavor that had all hands on deck. We worked hard in our joy, as we hosted the wedding of my dreams on my parent’s property. It felt like we were all conquering bits of sickness and pain on the day that I wore white. Under a fresh, cool mountain sky we drank wine and danced in fancy clothes. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">A month or so later, we cried happy tears at the baptism of my brother. We were bursting with joy and basking in His faithfulness when my brother, who once was so very lost (more on that next week), was dunked under water and raised up into new life. After the baptism, we celebrated with omelets and coffee cake and we all felt so proud. Around that same time we eagerly sat and watched another brother receive his Master’s degree. We clapped and cheered and I took one too many pictures of him standing so tall in that cap and gown.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Soon after, we celebrated the birth of a new baby boy. My sister and her husband adopted a baby for us all to love. We held him and congratulated him on getting the best new mom and dad. He captured our hearts in an instant and his sweet baby smell remains in our memories. And in September we threw a party, to celebrate the best man we know, turning sixty. We toasted to our Dad and indulged in fitting southern barbecue for our southern gentleman. It was a night of laughter and thankful tears.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">And as silly as it sounds, we sat on top of the world when our more than favorite team won the World Series. My brothers dowsed themselves in champagne and we called each other screaming in our unbelief. You could hear our smiles over the phones, states a part, but sharing in our celebrations. Finally, as the year drew to a close, we piled into my sister’s home and celebrated Christmas, all together, with two more members than the year before. We watched our nephews open presents in their Christmas pajamas and continued in the tradition of feasting on a big brunch.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">In the business of my family, it was a good year. We needed it, more than I think any of us realized. In Joel 2:25, the Lord says, “I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten--the great locust and the young locust, the other locusts and the locust swarm--my great army that I sent among you.”</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Our celebrations were restoration for the great locusts we faced. God gave us a season where we could take deep breaths and an open opportunity to feel more than the troubles that were encroached upon our hearts. While He allows desolate times and places in our lives, He redeems us from the locusts of our lives. Times that are spent in steady suffering are given light by His blessings. It is crucial that we remember He hears our hearts. God is aware of our pains and attune to our tiring trials and in His time He has promised to repay us for the times we have lost, from the good we have been kept from. Our job is to remain faithful, no matter the stage, and He will make good on the locusts of life. And for us, He repaid us for the locusts that out numbered us, in 2010. It was more than a good year; it was the year where we clearly saw His promises.</div>Katie Brucehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16191013745085412779noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2132444762400493266.post-11563062154931005702011-03-24T17:22:00.001-07:002011-03-24T18:10:45.683-07:00With Each Stitch<div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: small;">I’ve broken my heart more than once. In fact, I think if you could open my chest and get a real true picture of my heart you would see staples where each time someone lost my trust. It would be wrapped in scotch tape from moments of unrequited love and held gingerly together by knots of twine in the places where the aches have leaked through. We’ve all been in that place, crippled by broken hearts that seem to be barley beating.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: small;">Truth be told, I have found myself in that place more times that I’d like to admit. I’ve been broken by boys, by things that may have never really been mine, and by ending in places I never hoped to find. We have all been let down by loved ones and felt like someone was throwing us away with the garbage. And in the moments of heaviness, where it’s a task to even swallow, I look down at the pieces that I’m sure will never be put back in place.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: small;">The first boy that broke my heart was the one who gave me my first kiss. He first was my best friend and then I began wishing for something more. It was my senior year of high school, a challenging year for me to say the least, and He was my best friend. He was one year older and off to college for my final year at home, but he was still the last one I talked to at night before going to sleep and the first one I wanted to tell all about the details of my day. When I began to harbor more than friendship feelings, we began to talk about becoming more. Was it worth it, to risk such an amazing friendship? Would it even work? We pondered the thoughts and ended up with a decision to give it a shot. </span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: small;">Now I had never been kissed and I had the mentality that I wanted it to be special. I desired to spend it on someone worthwhile. It was something that I respected myself for and equally found embarrassing. There I was, age 18, about to graduate high school, and still without my first kiss. While I wanted it to have meaning it wasn’t a fact I paraded around. And then one weekend, while I was down visiting him at school, he took me to the beach and kissed me. It was perhaps the single most awkward moment of my life. I was nervous, okay terrified, and all in all it was a big fat fail. Typical of me, I was over thinking the whole thing and to this day when I think of that moment I cringe and duck hoping that maybe it was just a bad dream. Luckily, he was my best friend, we laughed, and vowed to try again, another day.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: small;">I returned home from the weekend and simultaneously stopped receiving any phone calls from him. It was torturing and I wondered if my awkward kiss had scared him away. Then on a Thursday night my phone rang. All he had to say was that it was over. Cut and dry, we were through. Through? But hadn’t we just started? I felt cheated, robbed, and mostly betrayed. My best friend was no longer my best friend but the boy who broke my heart.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: small;">That first night was the worse. I cried, I cursed, and I begged for the pain to subside. I gasped for air and when I caught a glimpse of my blotchy, tear stained face in the mirror, I cried again. I thought that I would never be the same and believed I would never be whole again.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: small;">While that was the first boy who broke my heart, it wasn’t my first heartache. Life has been filled with them. Friendships have crumbled, dreams have been crushed, lives have been lost, and secrets have been told. This world we live in is drenched with ways in which to break us. Devastation lurks in the crevices of every day life. </span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: small;">They say that time heals everything and while the reality of that is overbearing, it is truth. But I believe in a bit more. I will take a stance and say that in time, it is He who heals all wounds.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: small;">In Psalm 147:3 it says, “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.”</span></div><span style="font-size: small;">He picks us off of the bathroom floor, wipes away the pool of tears and blood, and wraps our wounds. In his arms, he swaddles our souls and kisses our foreheads. Our God reminds us that His love heals and He bandages our skinned knees and bruised souls with grace and peace. He makes space in time to bind our broken parts.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">Life can happen to us. It can knock us down, leave lumps in our throats, and drop us barefoot into a pile of our broken pieces. But, we can take comfort and claim in faith that he will pick us up, remind us of our worth, and heal us of all of our ailments. My heart may be battered but it is still beating. In the aftermath of every ache I can look down at the pieces and know that by His mercies He will make me whole. Again and Again. With His skillful surgeon hands he stitches us back together, covering our incisions with His truth. With each stitch, He heals our heartache. </span>Katie Brucehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16191013745085412779noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2132444762400493266.post-71261790520928504032011-03-23T18:37:00.001-07:002011-03-23T18:37:27.396-07:00Here and There <style>
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</style>I awoke this morning tired for what the day had in store.<span> </span>I was already tired at the thought of fighting rush hour traffic to take Nate in to work and for the long conversation I would have with a new doctor about my complicated health history.<span> </span>I took a shower and packed along God for the ride.<span> </span>I wasn’t sure we’d talk much or if I’d get the chance for a proper prayer but I knew better than to leave home without him. <br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal">When I saw the sun, I thanked Him for a break from the rain.<span> </span>While at the doctor’s I let Him quiet me in my fears during an intense exam and He helped me breathe when I received the tragic news.<span> </span>I received a text informing me that someone in our best friend’s inner circle had committed suicide.<span> </span>My heart was immediately heavy with their pain and their cries.<span> </span>What horrific news to receive, on any day, at any time.<span> </span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Immediately, I began to pray.<span> </span>Lord, be with my friends, comfort the family, do anything and everything to free them from such pain.<span> </span>And almost instantaneously I was embarrassed.<span> </span>Embarrassed that I so desperately call out to a God who is busy dealing with obviously much bigger things.<span> </span>Then my prayer began again, “Don’t worry about me, Lord.<span> </span>Please go and attend to much greater things.”</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">I prayed this same prayer a couple weeks ago.<span> </span>It was late at night and I was up past my bedtime, watching the wreckage in Japan.<span> </span>I saw footage of the debris left in the aftermath of the earthquake and I watched live as the tsunami uprooted and destroyed everything in its path.<span> </span>Later that night, as I lay safe in my bed, I felt guilty that lives were being lost in mass, while I was simply falling asleep.<span> </span>I prayed a prayer for the victims of Japan and then I laid in shame for my past pleas to God.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Have you ever felt like that?<span> </span>Like life walks up, slaps you in the face, and your perspective is totally changed.<span> </span>Who am I to bother God?<span> </span>My depression, my pain- it’s all so insignificant compared to everything else.<span> </span>But the beauty in our constantly broken world is that He is with us, all of us.<span> </span>He is with you, here with me, and present among all of them. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">In Matthew, Jesus says, “And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.”</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Who am I to bother God?<span> </span>Well, I am His child that He loves.<span> </span>While other cries may be more prominent, we worship a God that is big enough and great enough to attend to it all.<span> </span>He hears my silly grumbles and is still able to offer peace in the midst of tragedy.<span> </span>With assurance and confidence He says, “Surely I am with you always.” Today, tomorrow, and forever, I am with you and I am upholding them.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">It comes down to this.<span> </span>God was busy today.<span> </span>While I awoke this morning tired, fussed over what to wear, and worried about what to cook for dinner, He heard my grumbles and the cries of every other person on this planet.<span> </span>He never wakes tired because He never rests and meal times don’t concern Him because He’s too busy for a bite to eat.<span> </span>But, he is busy because He is there.<span> </span>I don’t have to worry about leaving home without Him because He is everywhere.<span> </span>He sat with me at the doctor’s office, was with you during your morning coffee, and accompanied many more on an afternoon run.<span> </span>It was Him that held me in my frustration and pain, brought comfort to those devastated in Japan, and listened to the very last whispers, in the final moments, of that hurting man’s life.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">He hears every cry and is present in every place.<span> </span>The earth will tremble and the seas will roar and our God is with us.<span> </span>I don’t have to wish Him away to be with those more battered than me because He is more than able.<span> </span>God is capable of hearing my silly problems and attending to their wailing grief.<span> </span>And He carries us all.<span> </span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Now I can pray, “Thank you for being here with me and there with them.<span> </span>For loving me and listening to them.<span> </span>I will rest in your presence while you hold them in their confusion and sorrow.<span> </span>You are greater than any other.”<span> </span>Surely He is with us.<span> </span>Here and there.<span> </span>Always.</div>Katie Brucehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16191013745085412779noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2132444762400493266.post-581596984990858602011-03-22T15:29:00.000-07:002011-03-22T17:05:54.903-07:00Just the Same<style>
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<div class="MsoNormal">As a little girl, I would sit on the stoop of our front porch and pretend to be a movie-star. I’d sit with my heart-shaped sunglasses, my baby in a stroller, with a purse by my side and I would imagine life as a celebrity. I would make-believe to my imaginary friends, the ins and outs of my famous life, and I’d dream of happy-ever-afters. When I look back now, my adult-self recognizes that I had a desire to be known. I still do. In fact, I believe that each of us wants to be known. We yearn for a life filled with reciprocal relationships and interactions and exchanges that make us more than just a number. We want to be known.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Whether we admit it to ourselves or not, when someone knows more than just our frame, we feel valued. It surprises my husband when I can pre-calculate his response to a certain situation. He is always astonished exclaiming, “How did you know, I’d say that.” And each time, I smile at him and say, “…because I know you.” I know that according to him there is a right way and a wrong way for the toilet paper to roll off its dispenser. I know he likes to whistle in the shower and that he likes to drink water from his cereal bowl when he is finished eating. He is very adamant about how he washes his face and how he dries it off. I know that his face lights up when he sees babies or little children and that he worries about blocked arteries and cholesterol more than most. He may find it silly that I can recall to memory the little things that make him who he is but I know that when I recognize all his unique parts, he is made more aware of how much I love him.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">We desire to be heard, to go noticed, and to be known. As much as we are frightened by vulnerability, we desire to share our secrets rather than live an anonymous life. However, it is common that we want people to see our good, just not the good, the bad, and the ugly. I know that for me, I want people in my life to know me, but probably only to a certain extent. I would hate for them to see my ugly thoughts, my angry grunts, and my judging ways. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">We’d be okay if being known meant that people had a photo-shopped image of us and were barred access to any paparazzi photograph that catches us in our imperfections. It would be less stressful if we could arrange bouquets of words to describe ourselves and send them out in brilliant press releases. Yet, the truth is to be known by someone means that they recognize your good and extend grace on your faults. Few of us ever bask in the gift it is to be truly known because we are afraid to bring light to our dark spots.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">In Psalm 139:1-4 it says, “O Lord, you have searched me and you know me. You know when I sit and when I rise; you perceive my thoughts from afar. You discern my going out and my lying down; you are familiar with all my ways. Before a word is on my tongue you know it completely, oh Lord.”</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">My God knows me. All of me, in fact. He knows my thoughts and is familiar with my life. The God of the entire universe knows me and in more ways than I can could ever even conceive. He and I are on more than just a first name basis. He knows my thoughts before they are even my own and He loves me still. My God knows me completely. He is aware of my jealousy, my impatience, and my frustrations and He cares about all of it.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Can you even imagine? This God knows it all. That’s enough to send me into a frantic sweat. But the verses go on to say that there is nowhere we can hide from Him. No place where we need to hide because even from the far ends of the earth He will guide us and hold us. We are truly known by a God that loves us. There isn’t a need to conceal the bad and the ugly because He already is aware and still has chosen to love us and call our names.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">On a brave day, I let Nate in on one of my “keep it to myself” thoughts. I start by stating that it will be very unattractive, I word vomit my blood boiling secret, and then I squeeze my eyes shut and hold my breath. It’s like I am waiting for him to look at me in disgust, break his vows to love me, and walk away. Instead, he finds a way to encourage me in my imperfections and loves me just the same. Nate, like God, knows me and even still loves me.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">My little girl dreams were built on being a celebrity. I wanted my name in lights and for people to think that I was beautiful. Those dreams have since faded and my desire now is to simply be known in the hopes of being loved. I am blessed to have a man, a family, and friends who do just that. But, the one who knows the whole truth- every treacherous thought and twisted logic, lifts my head from being hung in shame and reminds me that no matter where or what, He has searched me and loves me just the same.</div>Katie Brucehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16191013745085412779noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2132444762400493266.post-71895073221347471712011-03-21T14:34:00.000-07:002011-03-21T14:34:09.628-07:00One Stumbling Step <style>
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</style>I like to have my ducks all lined in a row.<span> </span>Don’t get me wrong.<span> </span>I love a spontaneous adventure, but find comfort in knowing things will work out just fine.<span> </span>Unfortunately, life isn’t about guarantees. Often the roads we travel, to the places we end up, make absolute no sense at all.<span> </span>If there is one thing we can be certain of it’s that the end results we see come about out of changed plans, rerouted directions, curveballs, and the aftershocks of being thrown for a loop. <div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Towards the end of my Master’s program, my studies took me overseas to study abroad in Asia.<span> </span>The trip was set to include time in Hong Kong, Mainland China, Korea, and Taiwan.<span> </span>Every few days we would change locations, lugging our books and baggage to another ancient land.<span> </span>My closest friends on the trip were all boys, a few who had become my lifelines throughout my grad school days, but I formed an instant connection with a girl named Sara.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></div><div class="MsoNormal">I knew who Sara was, prior to the trip, but we had never officially been introduced.<span> </span>Our first stop on our journey was Hong Kong and Sara and I immediately bonded over a fear for our culinary options and while shopping in the crowded, humid, street markets of that international city.<span> </span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">The trip was enjoyable for the first four days and then my world was tipped upside down.<span> </span>We were staying at a university in Korea and one afternoon, we Americans, thought it would be fun to challenge some of the local students to a basketball game.<span> </span>Quite a crowd gathered around to watch us play and we were off to an early lead.<span> </span>While defending my opponent, who had possession of the ball, my leg buckled underneath me and before I had any time to react I had fallen onto the ground with my entire body weight landing on my right arm and wrist.<span> </span>I quickly got back up and new immediately that my arm was broken.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Now breaking your arm stateside is one thing, but breaking a limb where western medicine is not quite up to par is a whole other.<span> </span>I received a ride to the hospital on a bumpy, windy back road while trying to stabilize my mangled arm.<span> </span>When we arrived at the hospital, I watched large bugs scurry across the floor as we attempted to translate our needs.<span> </span>The doctors offered me their best pain reducing meds, something very similar to ibuprofen, to quiet the pain.<span> </span>Suffice to say, it did not do the trick.<span> </span>After a few rounds of x-rays we discovered that my wrist, hand, and arm were all broken in several places.<span> </span>As the doctors went about the task of resetting my arm, they managed to dislocate my elbow and tear a few ligaments and tendons along the way.<span> </span>I was put in a splint until the swelling reduced and a few days later in Taiwan was fit for a cast.<span> </span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">The cast I received in Taiwan was a complete laughing matter.<span> </span>The size of the cast, once wrapped around my hand, wrist and upper and lower arm, was larger than my upper thigh.<span> </span>It took around 4 days to dry and ended up weighing between 15 and 20 pounds.<span> </span>As a right-handed patron, life, let alone traveling were my arch nemeses.<span> </span>Lucky, for me Sara was there to help me laugh through this awful reality.<span> </span>She helped me tie my hair, put on deodorant, and change in and out of clothes.<span> </span>In fact, she literally became my right hand man.<span> </span>There we were, two brand new friends, thrown into a comical situation that required her to extend grace to me and I had to allow myself to become vulnerable in front of her. The two of us superficially found common ground for the first four days of the trip and then we became sisters.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">I enjoyed Sara’s company and had fun shopping with her but I never imagined having to ask her to help me complete such intimate tasks.<span> </span>It’s odd to have to ask some to button your pants or tie your shoes at the age of twenty-four. <span> </span>I, myself, was equally embarrassed and humbled while Sara was willing and able.<span> </span>God often brings us to places of complete dependence in order to show us His paths.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">In Proverbs 16:9 it says, “We can make our plans, but the Lord determines our steps.”</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">I had a plan to travel to Asia, finish my degree, and have a little fun along the way.<span> </span>No disasters, no casualties, and no life-changing relationships.<span> </span>But, the Lord had a different plan.<span> </span>He didn’t want me to just experience Asia and walk away with a completed Master’s diploma.<span> </span>He planned that I would walk away with a best friend.<span> </span>Sure, traveling would have been less hectic, I may have been able to enjoy a few more things with the use of all my limbs, but God wanted me to learn more than just international business and chopstick fluency on this journey.<span> </span>His plan was to humble me and simultaneously provide for me.<span> </span>I believe that Sara and I would probably still be friends to this day without a broken arm but I’m not sure what it would look like.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">We, as humans, like to take control.<span> </span>I am guilty of desiring the ability to make a way for myself.<span> </span>Yet, God’s way always seems to be better than our own.<span> </span>It definitely throws our ducks out of order and may appear to make no sense at all but in the end, we are stronger and blessed by His provisions.<span> </span>Life isn’t about guarantees but with Him guiding our steps we can be certain that He knows what He is doing.<span> </span>God has already made a way for us.<span> </span>It may seem terrifying and dizzying but when we submit ourselves to His plans and the steps He has for us we can rest assured that He has our best interest at heart.<span> </span>No matter what, He promises that He will determine our steps. We can try and make our own plans and map out our own ways but He leads us on journeys far better than our own.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">With one stumbling step, that I didn’t have planned, I broke my arm and gained a best friend.<span> </span>Traveling to a foreign land always forges a thousand memories.<span> </span>But for me, Asia provided more than just things to be remembered.<span> </span>I found Sara, my lifelong friend.<span> </span>She has seen me through heartache and pain. She has listened to me cry and done her best to make me stronger.<span> </span>Sara was the first friend I introduced my future husband to and she knew he was the one for me.<span> </span>We have shared dreams and disappointments.<span> </span>On her wedding day, I stood beside her as her Maid of Honor and on mine; she stood there with me just the same.<span> </span>Today we share a long distance friendship that covers many miles but I know she is always just a phone call away.<span> </span>God’s plan included me breaking an arm in order that I might find depth with a new friend.<span> </span>His plan was better than mine.<span> </span>While my right arm may never function the same, the Lord led me to a friend, who changed my life for the good.</div>Katie Brucehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16191013745085412779noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2132444762400493266.post-66868621855634352862011-03-17T17:26:00.000-07:002011-03-17T18:27:27.162-07:00Faithful ProvisionsCurrently, I dread when the conversation turns to me. I am afraid when people ask what my life looks like because I am embarrassed of the successes I have as defined by the outside world. While my parents paid for me to receive an education at a private university and I delved into a life of student loans to fund my graduate endeavors, I sit here with nothing to show for it. The diplomas are proof of a well achieved academic life and the student loan statements provide the undeniable evidence that it was I who earned a Master's degree. Yet I am unemployed and not by choice. I have spent a few years applying, interviewing, and desperately longing for a 9-5. I've lost track of how many applications and cover letters I fill out and send. And after each interview that I think I have nailed, I sit on the couch in my own disappointment, with tears burning my eyes, as I receive the news of yet another rejection letter.<br />
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I want to know about my friends lives and I don't want to be sparred the details. I desire to encourage them and cheer them on and then I hope for the conversation to end. Not because I don't enjoy the company of their phone calls but because I don't want to have to tell them that I think I've failed. For a girl who lived as an over achiever, I get panic stricken when I don't have any successes within my grasp. While I know I am the luckiest girl alive to call my husband "mine," I wonder what comes after the white dress. <br />
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I am filled with envy when friends plan trips, make plans to buy new cars, and post pictures of new fashion ensembles. I wish that that was our life, our dream vacation, and our shiny new car. I believe those things aren't ours because of me. I don't believe they are the definition of happiness but I resent myself for not being able to supplement my husband some well-deserved fun. And so each week I wrestle with myself, my purpose, and my failed attempt at success through unemployment.<br />
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I wonder what my friends think of me. Do they think I'm lazy, unmotivated? Do they believe I lack drive? My family reminds me it does not matter what they think because we know the truth. I know my circumstances and I know that a full-time job would wreak havoc on my fragile body. I spend my time volunteering and looking for ways to still feel alive. And I cry. Angry tears because this is not how I pictured my professional life. And tears of sorrow and shame because I don't know if things will ever change.<br />
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That's just it. I don't know if things will ever look different than right here and right now. Sure we may one day have more than one car and a one bedroom apartment but will I always be embarrassed of my tiny list of professional achievements?<br />
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In the bible it says, "Know therefore that the Lord your God is God; he is the faithful God, keeping his covenant of love to a thousand generations of those who love him and keep his commands." Deuteronomy 7:9<br />
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Faithful? My God? I will admit I don't always understand His definitions of what it means to be faithful. Sometimes His extensions of faithfulness, the olive branches He brings, seem like just the contrary.<br />
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But my God, He is God. And today, I have to believe that there is faithfulness in the unemployment. That His covenant of love for me is even present in this situation. There is a reason for where I am at. While financially we may hunt for more, Nate and I know that there is faithfulness in keeping me unemployed. Only God knows what my body can withstand. He is the only one who knows the amount of pain I am in and so He keeps me here. Worldly successes aside, He is faithful and knows what we need in every season. His covenant of love is apparent in the faithfulness He has provided in a loving husband, a roof over my head, and food to nourish me. My God is a shelter in the storm.<br />
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No matter our circumstances, we must remember that God is God and He is faithful, every day. In unemployment and in pain, His promises are kept. Life's aim is not to be happy or to have things to show off to the world. Life is about loving and recognizing the blessings of His faithfulness in our insecurities.<br />
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I still cringe at times when the conversation turns to me, but He knows what is best. And while God's faithfulness does not always look like what we might dream up on our own, it still remains. Perhaps he hasn't left me here, in a state of unemployment. Yet instead, He has been faithful in giving me the right conditions for my body and health in this place. Call me crazy, but hey, He is faithful. It's up to us to realize his provisions right in the middle of our believed to be problems.Katie Brucehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16191013745085412779noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2132444762400493266.post-68363353450234851042011-03-16T17:48:00.000-07:002011-03-16T17:48:19.308-07:00Author's NoteThe following series is about a very personal, raw part of my life. I am unable to convey through words the experience in its entirety. This is my first attempt to write about it. I realize the sentences may be jumbled, the words may not always flow, but I ask for grace, from you, the reader. I was unable to capture the whole experience in words but it was important for me to share what I could on this day.Katie Brucehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16191013745085412779noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2132444762400493266.post-25218395935267591802011-03-16T15:30:00.001-07:002011-03-16T17:42:58.675-07:00Half Past March- Part III <style>
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</style>His first attempt to save me came in the form of gags. I clenched fist full after fist full of pills, some little and some big, and with each swig of water I gagged. My body shook as I tried to swallow down my escape. I fought back the urge to vomit while panic seized my body. I answered my phone for one last conversation with my mom. <br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal">I told her it was too late. I relayed to her that I had taken, at the very least, 300 pills, and now it was only a matter of time. I stayed on the phone with her as things began to get hazy. I cried and asked her why God didn’t care. I wanted to know what I had done wrong and why I had no strength to go on. She listened as I recounted events from my childhood. And then I began to get very sleepy, minutes would go by and I would not say a word. I would wake back up to the screaming of my name. She yelled to me, begging to wake me from my trance. Through her fear and mine, she reminded me and kept telling me that even though I could not feel it and even though He seemed so far off- God was with me in that moment. She begged me to cling to Him and I told her I was trying.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">The truth was that I really was trying. I was hanging onto the side of a cliff and I was still holding on. My intelligence told me that He was there. But, my heart- my poor heart could not feel His presence. I was consumed by a lie, fed to me from the enemy, that my God, my Savior had forgotten me. I believed that I was not worth it to Him. I cried for His strength because I was emptied of my own. As I lay my head on the steering wheel I begged for Him to hold me.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">I’m not sure how much time passed before I heard their yells. I heard my name being yelled and he sounded angry. I was collapsed over the steering wheel of my white Jeep Grand Cherokee Dream car and I was wracked with fear. “Kathryn Elizabeth Scudder,” he yelled. He knows me? The people pleaser in me jumped to attention. I struggled to lift my head and there they were. With rocks in hand, they begged for me to open the car. I was afraid to let them down and so I think I leaned over and hit the unlock button.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">They rushed me to their guardian angel mini-van. Alan, a long time family friend, received a call from my dad who had asked him to pray. My dad was getting on a flight to come to me but he was asking Alan, a trusted friend who was already in southern California, to help in any way he could, while my dad waited to board a plane that would take him to that same place. After hanging up with my dad, as I am told, Alan got in his car and drove the hour to get to my university. In the parking lot of my university, he ran into Daniel. Daniel, the kindest of men, had heard the news of my disappearance and Alan urged him to get in his car. Alan told Daniel that he would drive and Daniel would navigate where they were to go. And so they drove. They prayed that God would direct their car to me and He led them thirty miles, down freeways, up mountains, and around the final turn where they spotted the white Jeep.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Alan asked Daniel for the nearest hospital and Daniel relayed the directions and we began a bumpy ride down the mountain. Alan took charge in the front and Daniel held me in the back. His hands cupped my face just inches from his own and he begged for me to speak to him. I remember being self-conscious of my breath as he asked me questions about my family. We talked about how my dad would make a good president, we shared our love for the San Francisco Giants, and then I gave him my final instructions. I told him the name of each of the girls in my small group and I made him promise to look after them. I told him what they needed prayer for and I think I cried because I knew I was letting them and my family down.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">We arrived at the hospital and I remember very little from there on. I vaguely recall doctors feeding me charcoal to absorb the poisons in my tummy and I know that I flat-lined more than once in that emergency room. The doctors were not sure of my chances and I know I stumbled out of my coma to the sound of my brother’s and sister’s voices a day or so later (but that is a story for another day).</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">What I do know is this: I called and He came to my rescue. He sent his angels up that mountain so I would not have to make the journey down alone. I am also sure that our faith is not a faith of feelings. In my darkest hour, I not only felt that God was absent but I believed that He no longer cared for me. I thought I was a disappointment to Him. The truth is that He loved me all along. He delivered me from the depths that I pray no other man has to see. The Lord quieted my tears. And when I cried out to Him, He answered me.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">In my pain and exhaustion I was blinded to the truth. My attempt to take my own life was not because I thought life would be better for the ones I loved without me around. It was the answer to the lie that my God no longer wanted to hold me, that His strength was no longer available to me.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">In the scriptures it says, “ The Lord is my rock, my fortress, and my deliverer; my God is my rock, in whom I take refuge, He is my shield and the horn of my salvation, my stronghold.” Psalm 18:4</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">I take my stance behind Him. He is my rock, the fortress in which I reside. My God delivers me and is where I find refuge. My power, my strength, comes from Him. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">We must believe in His promises. They must connect from our head to our heart. The promises He has made are true. I must rely on the words that are written.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">My attempt to reach death before His timing is a part of my story. You can call me crazy (but it will hurt my feelings) and you can say I am a fool. I wonder at times why I had to go so far into the depths, but that is not as important as the real message of this story.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">The truth is He saved me. He sent two angels (to whom words will never do justice) to carry me to Him. And He held me. In fact, He was holding me all along. God chose to extend grace to me by sparing my life. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Six years ago today I tried to take my own life. I lost my way because my feelings failed me. Our faith is more than feelings. We must stand upon a foundation of His promises whether we “feel” them or not. It is my prayer that part of my story will remind others that God does care, even when we are sold the lies and led to believe otherwise by the evil one. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Waking up from that coma may have been the hardest moment of my life. My brain’s first thoughts were four letter expletives and then I began the long and hard journey back to living. Back to not only the belief, but to the foundation of truth that He loves me. He is my rock, my power, strength, and fortress. He has redeemed me.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">I was born in December, but every year at half past March, I celebrate the chance He gave me to live again. My faith is more than a feeling. I will remain in His promises and each year I will crawl further and further from the wreckage of a lie that so horribly deceived me. Whether I feel His presence or not, I shall remember through His promises that He is there.</div>Katie Brucehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16191013745085412779noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2132444762400493266.post-6429802315291355542011-03-16T13:28:00.000-07:002011-03-16T17:44:02.058-07:00Half Past March- Part II <style>
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</style>I remember the details of that day in vivid color and in foggy memories. There are parts of the day that I so accurately remember and other parts that are completely blurred. A few days prior I had been given a dosage of medication through an injection from one doctor while simultaneously starting a new prescription from another. I had informed both doctors of said medications and each doctor proceeded without any revision to their treatment plans. Unfortunately, both doctors did not cross reference all contraindicated drugs with the ones they had prescribed. Turns out I was in fact taking two drugs that are not supposed to be taken concurrently. As the days crept on, slowly I began to feel less and less like myself. <br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal">The day began like any other day. I woke up and began working on a big paper I had due for one of my classes. I finished the paper, printed it, and left it stapled on my desk. It was a warm day and I headed to campus to finish work for my deadline as the graphic design editor of the school newspaper. When my portions were ready for print, I decided to grab lunch with some friends from the paper. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">As we sat eating lunch, I remember being unable to track and participate in the conversations around me. My mind was racing and my head continually swiveled around as I watched what seemed like a million students pass by. Everything was in slow motion yet happening so quickly. After barely touching any of my food, I excused myself, said goodbye to my friends, and hopped in my car to head to another portion of my college campus. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">I arrived onto a blinding part of campus as the sun’s rays reflected harsh bursts of light off of the huge white-cemented buildings. I bounded the stairs and don’t remember what happened next. I suppose I was looking for someone. Maybe I was walking in circles. I still wonder what I looked liked. Was I walking fast, with a purpose? Or were my steps slow, like I was lost? The next thing I remember was that I was being stopped by someone, I don’t remember if it was a boy or girl, and they asked if I was okay. I responded to them blankly, as if I had no idea why they would think I wasn’t okay. It was then that I touched my face and felt that it was wet. Was it raining? Was I sweating? I reached my hands to my eyes and realized they were tears. My eyes weren’t watering from the bright sun but I was crying.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">I quickly ran back to my car, buckled up, and began to drive. By now I was sobbing. The sobs were coming quickly and I couldn’t get them to stop. My mind was racing and I kept yelling for God. I believed that He didn’t hear me. My body was overwhelmed with pain. Physically, I could no longer take each stab of agony. Mentally and emotionally, I was tired. Exhausted to say the least. For so long, I had kept a happy face, while inside I was screaming. The physical pain was robbing me from any joy in my path. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">And then there was my heart, completely raw. I was unable to comprehend why one tidal wave of physical torment was always immediately followed by another. Spiritually, my heart felt like it had sunk. I questioned if He cared, if He saw me, and if He knew there was nothing more I could take. Amidst the sobs and the deafening silence of when I called for Him, I could not hear any of my God’s promises.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">I swerved onto the freeway and headed west. I had no idea where I was driving but I felt that since the world around me was spinning I needed to get away from it as quick as I could. I grabbed for my phone and dialed my mom for what would be the first of several phone calls with her that day. When she answered, I immediately began apologizing. I needed her to know that it was nothing she or my dad had or hadn’t done. It wasn’t coming to this because of them. Then as the people pleaser in me could have predicted, I begged for her to not be mad. I repeated over and over that I wasn’t strong enough to keep fighting and I remember telling her that I was tired. Too tired to even go on.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">I got off the freeway and headed back to my apartment. I ran into my roommate and best friend back at our place. I was crying and she knew something was certainly not right. I tried to reassure that I was okay and that I just needed to be alone. I grabbed all the prescription bottles in my medicine cabinet, threw them in a bag, changed into some cooler and comfier clothes, and dashed back to my Jeep.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">This time I headed east. Again, unsure of where I was going but trying to escape the feeling of suffocation that was pressing down on me. I got off at an exit and pulled into a parking lot with a liquor store. I didn’t have any cash on hand and was afraid if I got a bottle of something they would trace where I had last used my debit card. The half empty water bottle in my backseat would have to do.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">I drove north. Making as many twists and turns up those mountain roads as I could. My phone rang the entire time. People were worried, word had gotten out that I was in a bad place, and everyone was desperately trying to find me. I cried up those steep mountain roads and in heavy sobs asked God to take away the pain.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">I’m not sure where I finally pulled off to the side and stopped my car. I even wonder if I could navigate back to that place today. I loaded my favorite worship song into my CD player and set it to repeat. Text messages of people asking where I was flooded my phone. I called my mom again. But, I mostly sat there. I was in over my head. So weak and so tired. The image that played over in over in my head was me, as a little girl, looking up to God, the Father. With my arms raised I was begging Him to pick me up, to hold me. And the only response I received was a displeased shake of His head. He looked at me with disappointment and refused to pick me up. I thought that He was ignoring me. And with that lie, which I held as truth, I blindly believed in no other option.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">(To be continued...) </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div>Katie Brucehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16191013745085412779noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2132444762400493266.post-34052770360935967712011-03-14T20:23:00.000-07:002011-03-16T13:28:51.406-07:00Half Past March- Part I<div style="font-family: inherit;"> <style>
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</style>I was born in December and each year at half past March, I acknowledge another year’s passing. Evidence on my driver’s license concludes that I’m in my mid to late twenties and this week I will celebrate six years of life. It was a moment that formed over the course of a decade and each year, in the middle of March, I put one hand in front of the other, and crawl farther and farther away from the wreckage. </div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: inherit;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: inherit;">Faith requires more than a feeling. The object of our faith entails complete trust and absolute confidence. We are certain of our spiritual faith regardless of whether or not we hold in our hands actual evidence or proof. It’s exhilarating, life changing, and all consuming. The faith that we possess, as a Christian, is a discipline. Each day, we decide to trust and exercise our faith in a God that we cannot see. Faith in Christ births the love, devotion, and obedience that we exemplify in our relationship with our Creator. Fortunately, God allows us moments where we can feel His presence and situations occur that strike us with the adoration He has for us and our belief grows even more because we are aware of His faithfulness. </div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: inherit;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: inherit;">While faith is more than a feeling, there are times when we yearn for just that. Where we might be able to feel His touch or constantly reside in comfort and peace because we “feel” that He is there. I would even go as far to say, that His promises are easier to claim as truths when we “feel” Him. But, feelings don’t always lead to truth and sometimes we build upon a feeling that was a lie to begin with.</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: inherit;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: inherit;">I had my tonsils out when I was six and my appendix out when I was eleven. Broke my back when I was thirteen and received a diagnosis of anorexia and severe depression that same year. In the fall of my junior year in high school, I was hospitalized for a total of 9 kidney stones wreaking havoc on both of my kidneys. That year alone I had three surgeries to clear the blockages I kept experiencing in my kidneys and that was the beginning of what would turn into 10 more surgical procedures and a debilitating ache that since hasn’t left. </div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: inherit;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: inherit;">My sophomore year in college they discovered another health condition that led me to eleven more operations and not a pain free day in over a decade. My body seems to have failed me. The relentless pain stabs at my flesh, day after day, and year after year. My abdomen looks like a treasure hunt map gone wrong because the incisions point to more than one “x” marks the spot.</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: inherit;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: inherit;">While I briefly summarized the bullet points of a harried medical past, the facts don’t immediately point out the severe emotional effects of my constant uphill battle. More than once I have fallen to my knees, gravel pressing into my bare skin, as the daunting task of the continued climb has paralyzed me. </div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: inherit;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: inherit;">The promise of the scriptures reads, “We wait in hope for the Lord; he is our help and our shield.” Psalm 33:20.</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: inherit;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: inherit;">On one day in particular, I sat hoping. I cried and prayed and screamed and begged. The pains outnumbered me. I lost my grip in His hope, and began to believe, in a feeling, that He wanted nothing to do with me.</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: inherit;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: inherit;">To Be Continued…</div>Katie Brucehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16191013745085412779noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2132444762400493266.post-38602778500867982912011-03-13T13:22:00.000-07:002011-03-13T13:22:28.981-07:00Cling AwayIn this life, most everything is temporary. It seems as though nothing lasts forever. In some cases, I can appreciate that things are fleeting. Take for example the 24-hour flu. Thank goodness it rarely knocks you flat onto your back for more than one to two days. I think the flu, at its worst, can lead people to believe that they are actually dying, that their time has come. I know that when my body has been depleted and there is nothing left but a dreadful case of the dry heaves, I have asked that the Lord just take me now. Dramatic, I know- but if you're honest with yourself, you've probably been there too. I am also thankful that winter is only temporary. Though it comes annually, it also dies down each year when Spring rushes in a breath of fresh air.<br />
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In other cases, I struggle with things being temporary. By nature, I think most of us are hoarders. I don't mean hoarder in the sense that we have 35 cats-keep every receipt-and there's no room to walk in our homes. Rather, we tend to cling on to what we love and wish that it would never end. I feel that way often these days whenever I am around my family or a group of friends. Since Seattle still doesn't feel like home and we don't have a community here, every time I get to see family or visit with friends every moment is bittersweet for me. Sweet because I am with the people I love the most and it is such a gift for my spirit. And bitter because I know it has to end and at some point I will find myself back on a plane headed in a direction away from the ones that I love sharing life with.<br />
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Then there's my birthday. I love my birthday. It's that one day where I just feel pretty proud of myself for making it through another year. But, if you know me well, you know that as each hour passes, I begin to get sad because I know with each tick of the clock that my birthday will end and tomorrow will be just an ordinary day. I recognize that it is silly, yet still it happens.<br />
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I love to live in the moment but often times wish the moment would never have to end. Do you ever feel that way? Like you want to latch on to all the magnificent things, live life to the full, and then close your eyes and hold your breath in an attempt to not let the time pass and make it last forever. I'm guilty of it. I'm a hoarder of the good times and I wish my glory days would never have to end. Yet, they always do. It's all temporary, or so it seems and often we are just left with the memories.<br />
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I think we yearn for some things to last and beg for certain times to go because we want perfection. It's as if we want to take elements from different times of our lives and put them into to play so we can make it last forever. A dream world reality. Our human selves want to clench onto whatever it is we can and carry it into the next phase, the next season. If there could always be just one more sip, one last drop, then maybe we would be satisfied.<br />
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Perfection isn't attainable. Believe me, I've tried. In fact, I'm guilty in striving for perfection almost everyday. It is a disease. We can't take it all with us. Every perfect moment, grand location, and ocean breeze can't be bottled up. We have to live each moment and let it wash over our backs when it is complete.<br />
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Life is temporary. We are temporary. The flu will come and go. Seasons will change and typically holidays last for just a mere 24 hours. The only thing we have that lasts forever is God's love.<br />
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Today's promise: "Though the mountains vanish, my unending love will never leave you." Isaiah 54:10<br />
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The earth will give way but His love is unending. Sickness may come but His love never leaves. Celebrations will be toasted and His love will be there before, in the midst, and after every last bite. It does not change. It is not temporary. His unending love will never leave.<br />
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It does not matter the time or the place. In happiness and troubles His love is always there. God's love for us is not circumstantial. He loves at one intensity and at all times. Whatever we are going through in life, He constantly loves us with His whole heart.<br />
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There is no need to hoard it or worry that it will disappear over time. Each and every moment is covered in His love. It is not dangled in front of us as a prize to be one or revoked when we think we are unworthy. Nothing, nothing at all will allow His unending love to ever leave. There is always another drop. Everything around us may change and life will take us places we may wish never existed-but His persistent love remains. If there is anything you should ever cling to, it is this. For me, and for you, His dear children, the Lord's unending love will never leave. I shall cling away to that promise for all of my days.Katie Brucehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16191013745085412779noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2132444762400493266.post-79768735088673406462011-03-11T17:48:00.000-08:002011-03-18T13:49:27.423-07:00Brother PeaceI've never really experienced anxiety until this year. I mean sure, I have been anxious. I am a worrier by nature. Since I was a little girl I can remember not being able to sleep at night because I was at emotional unrest. Elementary aged, side pony-tailed, and worried sick. My parents always knew when something was up because my stomach always began to ache. I carried my worry, my anxiety, and my fear in my tummy. Mom and Dad reassured me time and time again that I had no need to worry and that tomorrow would take care of itself, yet still I worried and I felt anxious. But, anxiety? Oh, it is a whole other story.<br />
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I had my first anxiety attack just shy of a year ago. I just had had unexpected surgery just 3 weeks prior to my wedding and I was feeling too sick to attend a shower being thrown in my honor by my mother's best friends. I am a master of faking it because most of my life has been spent in some kind of physical pain. I have developed an innate ability to smile, put on a show, and carry on amidst not feeling well. But, this day I couldn't do it. Maybe the to-do list for the wedding was too long and my incisions just too fresh but I couldn't keep calm and carry on. I tried to talk myself into it. I could do this. Go to the shower, be the beautiful bride, and be perfectly gracious as everyone expected. It wasn't happening and I think the wave of anxiety built from there. It formed, curled, and pushed forward when I discovered that I couldn't do it. It was one of the few times in my life where I sincerely wasn't able to pull it together. A coat or two of mascara and blow drying my hair weren't happening.<br />
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I remember being scared. My thoughts were racing and the tears were falling. Then, I couldn't breathe. I gasped for the air, trying to inhale anything that I could, but I couldn't. I felt like I was going crazy. I knew I was letting people down (my greatest fear) and I knew there was nothing that I could do to change that. My one time to shine, my wedding season, it was crumbling beneath me and I couldn't even bend down and pick up the pieces. I barricaded myself in my room at my parent's house and didn't even bother crawling underneath the covers because they felt more suffocating. And I literally fell apart. More than one person that day thought I wouldn't walk down the aisle. I, myself, believed I wasn't good enough to make that march. My state of indomitable anxiety lasted for about two days, screaming as it began and tiptoeing backwards as it laid to rest. It overtook me and left me frightened. It was nothing like an upset stomach or trouble sleeping at an elementary age. <br />
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I found my greatest comfort in those hours from my brother, Todd. I wasn't able to even form sentences or think of words to pray but my brother did. He laid beside me and whispered assurances that I wasn't a "crazy" and that it would pass. He promised it would subside and he stayed until that promise rang true. I cried in his arms and he empathized with me because he too, has suffered from the crushing waves of anxiety. My brother is a knight in shining armor to me. He crawls down with me, reaches me where I am, and doesn't think of leaving until the storm has passed. He blankets me with words that tell me I am worth it and that I can keep fighting. In those instances, he literally represents Jesus to me.<br />
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It's during those times, when the world isn't just spinning but it's doing cartwheels while intoxicated and your head isn't just pounding but it feels like a pair of shoes in a dryer, when we yearn for the quiet. To me, the quiet is peace. It's like a cloud cover of fog that seeps over us and fills in every space with true rest.<br />
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I can take a deep breath, close my eyes, and have no fear when I meet peace. It's almost like a dream and it hovers without even touching the ground. Its arrival is crucial and it ushers in the quiet without a sound.<br />
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That fateful day of my first run-in with anxiety, God brought my brother in as peace. He used Todd to wrap me in His peace. It felt like I wasn't going to be able to find it on my own. And He knew that in advance. So he called in a Brother of Peace.<br />
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God does that a lot. He shows up in a round about way, when He knows our thrashing ways will make it difficult for us to find Him. So, He reminds us that He is there in whatever way we'll let Him and He offers us peace.<br />
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The promise for today is this: <span style="font-size: small;"><b>"The Lord gives strength to his people; the Lord blesses his people with peace." </b></span>Psalm 29:11<br />
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A blessing of peace. Thank you, Lord. You are my strength and you are my peace. You know my need for the quiet so you so eloquently offer me strength and draw me aside in your peace. Amidst the anxiety of life, you bless us with peace.<br />
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In case you're wondering, I made it down the aisle post anxiety attack. Three weeks later I walked down the aisle and stood in a tree covered place and rays of sunlight warmed my skin. I said, "I do," and to my right, standing beside my husband, was my Brother Peace. And he was smiling. And I breathed deep and the Lord made good on His promise of blessing me with peace.<br />
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Unfortunately, that wasn't my first and last run-in with anxiety. It still attacks and hits me in the chest until I'm frightened beyond belief. But, as I lay afraid I look for His strength and ask for His peace. And they always show up. They follow through and I am drawn aside into His quiet peace. Amen.Katie Brucehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16191013745085412779noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2132444762400493266.post-73975548976091516272011-03-10T17:24:00.000-08:002011-03-10T17:25:38.554-08:00The Promise KeeperIt's hard for me when it comes to promises. I'm afraid when people make them because then I am immediately afraid that they will break them. I am guilty of having broken promises. I didn't set out to make those promises so I could break them but it happened no less. Certainly, we don't make promises with the intentions of not following through, but it happens. I have also been the victim of empty promises (<a href="http://katiekatekatekate.blogspot.com/2009/03/let-no-one-come-to-you-without-leaving.html">example here</a>) and I know firsthand the raw pain of when one shatters before your eyes and simultaneously shatters your heart.<br />
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As children we become obsessed with the magic that promises hold. Cross your heart and hope to die, stick a needle in my eye- I promise. Pinky Promise and with an interlock of two pinkies and a kiss to the hand a promise is formed. There's this comfort in a promise, an assurance that no matter what- it's going to be okay, for it was <i>promised</i>.<br />
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Then as time marches on we are inundated with becoming men and women of our word. Some men attend conferences titled, "Promise Keepers," where they pinky swear for hours on end until their pores seep promises. Okay, not really. But, you get the point. We want to give promises, we want to keep those promises, and it is a sweet melodious sound in our ears when someone special makes us a promise.<br />
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While I want to keep every promise I have spoken, there is one I fully intend on keeping. I made a promise, a solemn vow, to God and to my husband, that I will love him always. That I will never forsake him until death do us part. YIKES! What a promise! I know, I know...go big or go home. And I go BIG. But that's my promise and one that I committed to on our wedding day and the same one I recommit to each and every morning (and depending on the day, sometimes I have to go back to that promise multiple times). Promises I made and promises I will keep.<br />
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My dad rarely makes promises. Well, at least with me (if you know him and he's been promising you things, I'd like to know. Take this as your cue to get in contact with me). It's not that my dad is a man who doesn't follow through, it's quite the contrary. He is a man of his word and he makes good when he agrees to something. But, when I ask my dad for help, to agree on something, do a task, etc I often try and lock it down with one question. "Promise?" His response, "I will do everything in my power to make it happen." What a trickster. Sly, fella if you ask me. Truthfully though, he says those words because I believes he knows the feeling when a promise can't be kept. He knows the pain of when a promise falls to pieces and simultaneously takes pieces of your heart with it. He has made a few promises to me and I believe that he will always keep them. Through my physical and emotional pain he has promised that he will always be there. He has promised to love me no matter what and has promised that if He could he would take all my pain from me. I get choked up even writing about it because I know that his promises are true and faithful. I believe this man, this lovely man that is my father, is the closest thing I will ever experience to Christ, here on this Earth. He is gentle, strong, a comfort, and someone I can always count on. Yet, I know that one day my promises with him will run out. He won't intentionally break them, but there will be a day when He won't be able to make good because he won't be here. That is my biggest fear. Losing him. Losing my mom. Having to say goodbye to my sister or brothers. But, it will happen. We are no match for death. It has the power to extinguish our promises and I often live in fear for the day that it will come. When Nate and I will have to be apart until we both reach Heaven and for the moment where my dad won't always "physically" be here for me.<br />
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With that being said, the time to remind myself of God's promises is now. It can't wait for later. I must repeat these promises until they are written on my heart and with each blink of an eye they are renewed. His promises are everlasting. For it is written, "nothing can separate us from the love of God." (Romans 8:38-39)<br />
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While that is a promise in itself, today's promise is this:<br />
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<b><i style="color: black;">"So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand."</i></b> Isaiah 41:10<br />
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I am with you. I am your God. I will strengthen you. I will help you. I will uphold you. I breathe this in and I find sweet relief. He is with us. He can help us, strengthen us, and He promises to hold us up. I prefer to just picture Him holding me. I am not alone. No matter how I feel, how far I have fallen in the pit, and when I have misplaced my hope- I am not alone. He is with me.<br />
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There is a Rascal Flatt's song called, "I Won't Let Go." It's a beautiful song. It is a song of promises. The lyrics sing of the promise that no matter what, "I won't let go." It's a beautiful song to dedicate to your lover or to give as a gift to your child. But right now, I encourage you to close your eyes, listen to the lyrics and hear it as God singing to you His promises in a song.<br />
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<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8bG_YXmm6GA&feature=fvwrel">I Won't Let Go</a><br />
<span style="font-size: x-small;">And I won't let you fall It’s like a storm That cuts a path It’s breaks your will It feels like that You think your lost But your not lost on your own You're not alone I will stand by you I will help you through When you’ve done all you can do If you can’t cope I will dry your eyes I will fight your fight I will hold you tight And I wont let go It hurts my heart To see you cry I know it’s dark This part of life Oh it finds us all And we’re too small To stop the rain Oh but when it rains I will stand by you I will help you through When you’ve done all you can do And you can’t cope I will dry your eyes I will fight your fight I will hold you tight Don’t be afraid to fall I’m right here to catch you I wont let you down<br />
It wont get you down You're gonna make it Yea I know you can make it Cause I will stand by you I will help you through When you’ve done all you can do And you can’t cope And I will dry your eyes I will fight your fight I will hold you tight And I won't let go Oh I’m gonna hold you And I won't let go Wont let you go No I won't</span> <br />
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"So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand." <i>I won't let go.</i><br />
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He is with us. We are not alone. He will not let go. He is the promise keeper. Cross my heart, pinky promise. And for today, I will remember this- and keep breathing. <i>I promise</i>.<i> </i>Katie Brucehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16191013745085412779noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2132444762400493266.post-33360225803388135792011-03-09T19:40:00.000-08:002011-03-09T19:40:41.100-08:00Promises, PromisesIt's Ash Wednesday and people around the world are beginning their fast for the 40 days between now and when we will celebrate the Resurrection on Easter Sunday. There have been years where I have chosen to withhold from something in an attempt to experience suffering like Christ endured for me on the cross. I will admit that while I have succeeded during my Lenten seasons, the suffering I experience is like nothing of the pain I imagine my savior took on for me. In fact, sometimes I think we try and approach Lent with a double-edged sword. We want to give something up and in return we want to boast that we had the will-power to see it through. Or perhaps come Easter morn, we want to don our Sunday best, a few inches thinner because of our ability to give up sweets for forty days. To me, Lent often falls flat because individuals fail to rely on Christ to see them through their "suffering" or to use it as a time to draw closer to him. Too often I look around at throngs of people twisting a marked time of spiritual growth into a second round of New Year's resolutions. This is not to say that I have yet to witness a spiritual transformation during these times. I have friends and family that I have seen remove afforded luxuries from their lives and have arrived on Easter, closer to Christ and more profoundly aware of the ultimate gift our Savior bled for us.<br />
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The 40 days of Lent are a time for us to journey with Jesus into the desert. Through self-denial, repentance, and prayer we are able to prepare our hearts to hear the message of the greatest sacrifice of all time. Nate and I have been talking about Lent the past week or so in an attempt to pinpoint what would be appropriate for us to abstain from for such a time as this. Since neither of us drinks coffee or takes trips to Starbuck's that suggestion immediately flies out the window. Or perhaps that is our answer and we just appear so well-disciplined to our peers, not even flinching without caffeine for 40 days. Albeit, that clearly won't work since I just divulged our secret. Last night, as we sat talking after our devotions we came to the conclusion that we already feel like we are on a journey with Jesus in the desert. While this year has been such a blessing to us because we have become a family, it has been a year marked with discouragement, loneliness, and depression.<br />
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Our move to Seattle has been difficult. We have yet to connect with people in a way in which we would have hoped. Being far away from our families and are best friends has left both of us lonely and frustrated. While God has provided a roof over our heads and food to eat, we feel as if we are barely keeping ourselves afloat financially. I have found myself in the trenches of depression while dealing with physical pain on a daily basis. In the past couple of weeks we have discovered that I am in need of yet another surgery and both our spirits feel weak as we come to grips with what that will require emotionally, mentally, physically, and financially. And while we are only a few states north of what feels like "home," we feel like we are in a foreign land lacking lifelines.<br />
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Yesterday, we came across the verse, "Do as you promised...that your name will be great forever," in 1 Chronicles 17:23-24. It was a beautiful reminder to us that if we pray God's promises we can say with confidence that He will do as promised. Often times, we ask for things in our prayer life that we are not sure line up with His purpose and plan for our life. Instead, if we spend time praying for His promises to reign true in our lives, we are sure that they will reveal themselves.<br />
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And so that was that. We claimed as a couple, that for this Lenten season, it will not be about denying ourselves candy, facebook, or lemonade. For 40 days, we will claim the promises He gives to us from His word. Each day we will focus on one promise from the scriptures, spend time in prayer asking for it in our lives, and we will journey with Him as He reveals His truths and does as He has promised.<br />
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The Lenten season is about taking stock and reflecting on the goodness and selflessness of our Lord. In a time when much of life feels like a desert, we will claim His promises and we will clothe ourselves in His truths daily. For we believe, that it is only through His strength, faithfulness, and love that we have made it thus far and will continue on until our completion.<br />
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Feel free to check back here as we post the 40 promises, one each day of Lent, that we will cling to during this season and every day after as we all know life can get a bit bumpy.<br />
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Blessings and peace to you on your 40 day journey. Forgive us in advance for rejoicing prematurely in His faithfulness and if we don't show up on Easter Sunday a few pounds lighter.Katie Brucehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16191013745085412779noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2132444762400493266.post-60316303731490011632011-01-26T19:30:00.000-08:002011-01-26T19:30:16.640-08:00Chasing Stop Signs<span id="goog_1885779823">If you know me, you know of my love for greeting cards. Now I'm not talking grocery store greeting cards. I am referring to miniature works of art found in boutique paperies. Cards that you buy and then end up collecting because they are just too beautiful to give away. Or wait? Is that just me? Now when I find a card I love- I buy two. One to give away and one to put up around the house to inspire me throughout my days. It's even to the point where I know specific card designers and am up-to-date on when they release new work. </span><br />
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</span>Katie Brucehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16191013745085412779noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2132444762400493266.post-57509825572404617712010-10-25T15:21:00.000-07:002010-10-25T17:16:15.547-07:00from here to there<style>
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<div class="MsoNormal">The hardest part of being here is not being there. Not being at Woodleaf, in the Bay, on the sunny beaches of southern California, or immersed in our beloved community in Arizona. Besides the colder weather, an overbearing amount of fleece, sandals worn with socks, and the tendency towards rain-Seattle is not a difficult place to live. We have running water, we are well fed, and a language barrier is non-existent. This city is vibrant, beautiful, and its close proximity to the water is a major bonus. But being here, means we can’t be there. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">More and more each day I am struck with the fact that we are all struggling. Struggling to hold our tongues, exude patience, reinvent ourselves, become more who God intended us to be, or even to get out of bed each morning. No matter what facades we uphold or smiles we paint on, every day, some person, whether you know them or not, could be facing their own personal natural disaster. The ground may feel like it is crumbling beneath them or they simply may have lost the ability to put one foot in front of the other. More common than not we run into these individuals in the market, sit next to them at dinner parties, and pass by them in traffic. Even still, these people could actually be the faces sleeping under our same roofs, the ones singing to the mountaintops in the front seat of our cars, whose numbers we know by heart, or whose picture is on our refrigerators. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">In college, I was struck by a quote that said, “Be kinder than necessary for everyone is facing some sort of battle.” It’s true. For some those battles may be larger and lengthier than others- but struggling is all something we can identify with. Restlessness, brokenness, and heavy hearts are multiplied by the millions. We have all, if not in this moment, faced some sort of battle.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">My battles and struggles have allowed me to really grasp the concept of suffering. I know too well the suffering of physical pain and the emotions of despair and loneliness that coincide with it. I have the days where I do not think I can make it out of bed and the days where I spend every moment just asking for God’s grace to get me through unto the next. Yet, through my battles I have never been alone. God has always provided someone to suffer alongside of me. Most often it has been my parents, my siblings, and Nate. Just this past week, I had a night where I was unable to sleep and unable to find any relief from the pain but I had Nate right there by my side. He was encouraging me, praying with me, laughing with me, and suffering with me. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">There have been friends from near and far who have prayed for me over the years, sent an encouraging text, or thanked me for relying on God’s strength and allowing them to catch a better glimpse of Him. While there are days and moments that I wish my story would not have to include all that it has, in the overall scheme of things I give thanks to my God for suffering. My struggles, my heartaches, my pains have allowed me to relate to people, to place myself in their shoes, and to encourage them if by only offering a listening ear. I place high value in my relationships because I want to be a good steward of the people God has blessed me with. I believe that the best I have to offer in a friendship is to suffer alongside of someone. I think this is the greatest gift any of us can offer and that is why the hardest part of being here is not being there. Mainly because my desire is to suffer alongside of those that I love in a manner of close proximity. I want to be there for them in an instant by hopping in my car and driving to their house. I desire to buy them a meal or pour them a glass of wine. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Unfortunately, life has spread the people I love most far and wide. However, through the miles, state lines, and time zones I am learning what it means to suffer alongside of someone from a distance. It is setting in more and more that we are here and so we can’t be there. However, while God has us here it does not mean that my love, support, and prayers are unable to reach to there. This world is filled with suffering. Christ’s life was marked with suffering and I would not hesitate to argue that not every person has faced some sort of battle. But, the beauty in the breakdown is that we can suffer alongside of one another, shield each other from the storm, hold hands to offer hope, and with eyes of empathy affirm that the journey is hard yet worth traveling.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">So, from Seattle, while feeling like a world away, yet simply just a little farther north, I am suffering alongside of you. I am suffering here with you, my brother in Arizona, whose heart is aching. I will hold your hand from here, my sister, who is facing the demon we both know too well. I’m right behind you my dear friend, who feels so turned around from this quarter life crisis. My head is bowed in prayer for you my brother, who believes God will punish him. I will remind you from here, that you are child of God, to my birdy whose misplaced her faith. I am loving you all from here and while I wish I could do it from there- know that you are not alone in your battle, your struggles will not overtake you, and that He has given me a gift by allowing me to suffer alongside of you. From here, to there our friendships will still remain, our doors will always be open, and if all else fails I can still hop in the car and drive like a renegade if need be. I love you, from here to there.</div>Katie Brucehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16191013745085412779noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2132444762400493266.post-3917384834099505612010-10-10T21:08:00.000-07:002010-10-10T21:08:20.843-07:00Pushing the Couch Back<style>
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent: 0.5in;">Our apartment is quite tiny.<span> </span>You can call it quaint and you can call it cute (all terms I myself prefer) but pretty words aside it is simply small.<span> </span>So small in fact, that we don’t have room for a kitchen table.<span> </span>We opted for comfortable seating arrangements (i.e. a couch) instead of the grand, large farmhouse table that I have been dreaming of for years.<span> </span>Nate and I still gather around our “imaginary” table for meals but for now, my dreams of beautiful dinner parties and setting a creative table-scape will have to be put on hold.</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent: 0.5in;">I have always wanted my house and the home I make with my husband to be one with a revolving door.<span> </span>Growing up, the house my parent’s built was filled with not only my family but also several others who took refuge there for a meal, a season, or a decade.<span> </span>I can’t remember them turning anyone away.<span> </span>Living in a home that kept me safe and provided shelter for more than just the immediate members of my family grew in me a strong desire to always love and serve others.<span> </span>From the get go, I learned that homes were meant to be lived in, shared, and opened to more than just the few who used it as a return address on envelopes.</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent: 0.5in;">My greatest concern in calling such a small space home was that we would be limited in the ways we could open our home and make it available to others.<span> </span>Farmhouse table aside, there are no guest bedrooms to stock with fine linens and plush pillows.<span> </span>However, no matter how small the space it is our prayer that our home would still have a revolving door for friends from afar to visit and new friends to feel loved and encouraged.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span> </span>This week that prayer was answered.<span> </span>Upon hearing of our move to the Northwest I immediately tried to find a way to serve.<span> </span>I love working with students and so I quickly applied to become a mentor and bible study leader for a group of girls from the University of Washington.<span> </span>These girls live in community together, in a somewhat Christian sorority, in a large mansion right near campus.<span> </span>All of the members of the house are placed in a bible study and each week meet together with a mentor and a student leader.<span> </span>I count it as a blessing that I was chosen as a mentor and Thursday night was our first meeting as an entire group.<span> </span>The girls asked if they could come to our place for bible study and without hesitation, yet worried about space in the back of my mind, I eagerly said yes. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><span> </span>Nate agreed to spend the evening in our bedroom (He is such a Saint) and the two of us (Nate helped clean and pull ingredients) prepared apple cider and freshly baked cookies for the girls.<span> </span>I was nervous before they arrived.<span> </span>Would our house be too small?<span> </span>Would I be the strange California Girl Bible Study Leader?<span> </span>All sorts of questions plagued me as we pushed the couch back and waited for the girls.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span> </span>Shortly after seven, six beautiful girls appeared at our door.<span> </span>Our apartment had our first house guests.<span> </span>Not only were they the first visitors to the Bruce household but also they were the first friends we would meet.<span> </span>And so as Nate helped me pour the cider, six girls filled our living room, sat on our couches, and a few were gracious enough to perch on the floor.<span> </span>I sat on a yoga mat and scattered pillows around to make everyone more comfortable and Nate vanished to the bedroom. For a couple of short hours I got to not only begin to know these girls but to commence on my journey of falling in love with each of them.<span> </span>I can already tell these six girls will become like little sisters to both Nate and I and each week, regardless of the size of our home, we will gather together, with the couch pushed back and some of us on the floor, and we will talk about life, love, college, and most importantly Christ and what it means to be a follower of Him.<span> </span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent: 0.5in;">In our dream world, Nate and I would have loved to have a house.<span> </span>In our ideal world, we would have loved to have a two-bedroom apartment.<span> </span>Yet, in our perfect world we have a tiny little place that we plan to fill with as many people as possible as opportunities to host and to love present themselves.<span> </span>We can push the couch back, eat a meal Indian style on the floor, blow up an air mattress and cover it with the most cozy comforters you’ll ever know.<span> </span>This small apartment, that is becoming our home, is not ours to hide in.<span> </span>Our doors are made to swing open and to be a shelter for anyone, at anytime, along their journey.</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent: 0.5in;"> <style>
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</style><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12pt;">There’s a country song that sings, “You’re gonna miss this.<span> </span>You’re gonna want this back.<span> </span>You’re gonna wish these days hadn’t gone by so fast.<span> </span>These are some good times, so take a good look around.<span> </span>You may not know it now, but you’re gonna miss this.”<span> </span>This has become a mantra for Nate and I.<span> </span>We will miss these days.<span> </span>The stories of our one bedroom apartment and how a whisper in the kitchen carries to the shower.<span> </span>We are taking it all in and casting more than just quick glances.<span> </span>We are blessed to have a home and to have people to share it with.<span> </span>And from here on out, no matter where we are, we will remember the goodness of pushing the couch back</span>. </div>Katie Brucehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16191013745085412779noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2132444762400493266.post-5641531680457257032010-10-07T00:08:00.000-07:002010-10-08T18:31:54.604-07:00Couldn't Wait to Get Goin' (Not Quite Ready to Leave)<style>
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent: 0.5in;">For our wedding, my brother-in-law, Adam, put together a slideshow of Nate and I that showed glimpses of our own individual stories and the journeys we both traveled until God intertwined our paths. The soundtrack to our video montage was appropriate for both of us as individuals and then as a couple as the latter part of the slideshow unfolded the first pages of our love story. As pictures of my childhood danced by, the song “American Honey,” by Lady Antebellum played. What I didn’t know then was that months later I’d still have one lyric in particular stuck on repeat in my mind. The lyric sings, <i>“…couldn’t wait to get goin’ but wasn’t quite ready to leave,”</i> and it sums up my heart in eleven words.</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent: 0.5in;">You see when I signed up for this whole marriage thing the only thing that had me worried was leaving the “Scudder” behind. Now don’t get me wrong, once a Scudder, always a Scudder. But for me, Scudder has always been more than just a surname. My last name was what connected me to my dad, my parents, and my family. I think that so much of my identity was tied up in those seven letters. Getting married meant leaving my father’s house. I grew up in his family, the one he and my mom created for us. I may have moved out of my father’s house when I went away to college but no matter where I was, I was always a part of my father’s house. I knew of its love and protection even from distant places. </div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent: 0.5in;"> Meeting Nate down the aisle, on the arm of my dad, joining hands with him, and exchanging vows under the trees on that breathtaking day was everything I ever imagined it would be. It was incredible, surreal, beautiful, emotional, and had me on the tips of my toes leaning into love. <i>I couldn’t wait to get goin’.</i></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent: 0.5in;">When Nate kissed his bride and we walked back down that aisle as husband and wife I don’t think my feet touched the ground. The pictures were taken, the champagne was poured, and then I met my dad on the dance floor and I wasn’t quite ready to leave. I felt bliss and simultaneously I felt loss. </div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent: 0.5in;">Now this may seem overly dramatic to some of you and you may want to slap me in the face. You may be thinking, “boo hoo, you found the love of your life. Grow up, blah blah blah.” And you can think that. But I simply couldn’t wait to get goin’ yet <i>I wasn’t quite ready to leave.</i> Leave my dad, my mom, their home, and being a Scudder.</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent: 0.5in;">After Nate and I got married we had the rare, unique, humbling adventure of moving in with my parents. We weren’t sure where we were headed and while we figured out what was next my parents were gracious enough to let us stay awhile. While I will spare you the details, after a couple of wrong turns and many hours spent in prayer, yearning for direction, we got the call. </div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent: 0.5in;">Nate was offered a job in Seattle and in a few short weeks we were moving. We both felt excited, nervous, and completely overwhelmed. My parents helped us pack, paint furniture, and then my dad followed our U-Haul up to Seattle and helped us unload and watched as Nate carried me over the threshold. The three of us spent hours sifting through boxes, making silly jokes, and then Sunday morning we hugged through tears and stood on the corner as he drove away. And in that moment, Nate and I both <i>weren’t quite ready for him to leave.</i></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent: 0.5in;">I can’t wait to get goin’ and continue on in this adventure with Nate. But, don’t judge me that I’m not quite ready to leave. Here, in this strange city I am Katie Bruce. Whoever I meet from here will only know me as a Bruce. I am realizing that I will always be a part of my Dad’s family and Nate has joined that family too. Yet at the same time, I am becoming Katie Bruce. We may have already been married for a few months, but we are still working on becoming family. Bruce is going to become a whole lot more than just a new last name-- because up here, in this brand new place, it’s just the two of us. This Arizona boy and California girl are going to get caught in the rain, make a small apartment a home, and become a family. I am not sure I was ever going to be ready to leave yet here I am, here we are. I will always be Katie, I will always have my Scudder roots, but we are <i>Becoming the Bruces</i>.</div>Katie Brucehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16191013745085412779noreply@blogger.com0